YADDSM (Yet Another Don't Date Single Mothers) Article.

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The only constant in life is change, and despite the perceived notion we somehow have control over all the X factors that may enter our lives like illness, death, and other unforeseen consequences, it is a facade... Young men should never settle for single mothers. And you certainly don't speak for all single mothers, I've seen plenty that treat men like trash and use them.

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YADDSM (Yet Another Don't Date Single Mothers) Article.

Guys, I was reading through the when I found this. As always, I added my commentary free of charge... This demonstrates terrible, selfish values. What will happen if you knock her up? That alone is bad enough! At the very least, a single mom shows lack of good judgement; otherwise she wouldn't have had sex with a man with whom she was unwilling to have children. They say that, unless you're willing to have CHILDREN with the person after all, they are a byproduct of the sex act , then you should NOT have sex with the person. It will never go away. Too big a risk. What more can I add to that? Add a minor child and it really complicates the issue. Do you want to deal with her kid s too? Man, isn't THAT the truth?! You will be obligated to help pay for sitters, food, braces, on and on. Get the credit card out! I seldom get the credit card out for me; why in blazes would I get it out for some bitch and her womb turds-especially when said womb turds aren't even mine?! Millions of women in this country are single with no kids, and in every age range. Go younger if you have to. Do you think she will change her mind for you? That she will forget her utter contempt for husbands and fathers just for you? And neither will any other smart man. I don't know about this; this may be true, but I haven't seen many single, childless women my age or even close to it. Perhaps I'm looking in the wrong places? I was a member of a couple of dating sites, and it seems as if the vast majority of women on there have kids. Maybe that's why they're on dating sites in the first place? All I do know is that, once you get past the early 20s women, that the vast majority of the ones I've met, seen, and know have kids. Having said that, I agree that the smart man will NOT want to have anything to do with a single mom-not for a relationship anyway. Perhaps a pump-n-dump or two are okay, but a relationship with a single mom is out of the question. My boys out there will encounter single motners; when they do, they need to know what to do-hit the 'Eject' button! This piece gives them sound reasons for doing so. MarkyMark All you mentioned is true. The real thing that drives me away from single moms is having to deal with their bastards. I want to deal with her and her only, but unless her kids are out of the house there is a good chance that you will have to deal with a child or a fucking teenager. Single mommies are fun to fuck. They generally don't get enough of that so they're more than willing to do freaky things in bed, but other than that they're not good girlfriends and certainly not good wives. I couldn't agree more MarkyMark. Like you said it's hard to not run into single moms as you get older. The ones that kill me are the women in their 40s who have toddlers, talk about poor planning!! I have a vasectomy as back up, so I will entertain a single mother for a pump and dump, but nothing more. Hit it and quit it. Anonymous First of all, don't pretend you are a man. You are a boy. You write at roughly a grade 2 level and your reasoning is on par with that of 6 year-old boy. A man, a real one, doesn't need a woman to to spend all of her energy on him. He's grown up and self sufficient not equivalent to selfish. He has other goals and interests and wants a woman who has that too. How do I know this? Take The Red Pill Anonymous: quit pretending that you're a man -- you're either a skank pretending to be a man, a White Knight, or a mangina. Go ahead -- you'll have an interesting 'education' on how the Real World works now, and how everything in this blog is based on FACTS, not political doubletalk and PC wishful thinking like feminism. And save the 'shaming language' -- IT DOESN'T WORK ANY MORE! Disasters can devastate our most critical services including water supplies, medical facilities and first responders, waste and trash processing and removal, transportation options, fuel and grocery supplies, natural gas lines, electricity, phone service, and even public safety. If you want To Save Your Family During The Coming Long-Term Crisis. At the same time, you certainly will figure out how to make your thoroughly clean water, carry out the complete control in excess of your food and water supplies, keep on looters away from your own home Anonymous Hi my name is J. I live in Orange County,CA This is true. NEVER EVER date a single mother. They spent all their fucking attention on their fucking kids. I hate this shit... I am so sick of it. Especially dealing with the fucking father of the kid. They always need to communicate with each other. I hate it when single moms give us their Fucking attitudes. You bitches better stop doing that because we are the ones that have it difficult by dealing with a package deal. You stupid bitches fucked up in the first place and we are not responsible for your mistakes bitches. WALK AWAY BOYS, NO MATTER HOW HOT THEY ARE. THEIR ARE MILLIONS OF SINGLE GIRLS OUT THERE. YOU WILL FIND THE PERFECT ONE. Anonymous My sister in-law is a single mom and she always rely on us especially to my husband her younger brother. And you usually see it from the better looking women. Just because you're relatively better looking than most women your age does not mean you're going to find a guy who 'loves your kids like you do'. And if you do find a guy who's stupid enough to attempt this impossible feat, he's going to be the most pathetic dude in the world with some serious psychological problems. Anonymous Lol single mom here. Of course most of my attention is on my kid, and I rely on myself to give my child what she needs. She isn't a bastard because she has a dad and he does raise her as well. I don't expect a boy to live my kid as much as me, she isn't his. I have seen women give a long list of stupid demands like being a role model to their kids or doing family things really early on and that to me is stupid. And to the girl. Anonymous Who wants a women that has 1-2 kids, or more if the guy is single? That is so stupid. Why limit himself to a women that has baggage, before you know it , he will be taking the kid or kids to school,. And what happened to the Dad?..... The first thing that would come to my mind is : Is she a bitch or something? Did she drive him crazy?... And don't get me started on 2nd best, A guy will always be pecked as 2nd or 3rd, in a mothers life... Your not the father , leave my babies alone.... Anonymous I agree docwyatt, my sister is a single mother and is stupid, I cant believe that she got pregnant and had two children out of marriage, she seemed like she wouldn't do that and it upsets me that she did but she did! Wow, thats tha best answer for them. Single moms have gotten a life too and are not like the single hoes out there. Iam dating with a sigle mom of 3. Its the best experience i hav ever felt.. We ar very much in love.... Lolz Shout out to y'all single moms out there. Anonymous You probably just started dating. In the beginning they will go out of their way to keep you they will give you seemingly unlimited sex, home cooked meals, and everything that you think you want in a woman. Then after a few months things start to change but by then you are to caught up in her life to realize that you are just a pawn. If I was you I would run now while you got the chance because once she is done you will have nothing. Either you just started date her or you're broke. In the beginning they try to make it seem like you got a good woman. The go out of their way by cooking, giving you seemly endless sex, and paying for stuff that man normal pay for. Slowly over time things start to change because no one can keep a lie going forever. Then one day you will wake up and realize that you made the biggest mistake of you life. For you I hope that it isn't to late. Anonymous What I cannot figure out is , :All the single guys on here?..... Why would you want some little fuckers running around , telling you, That is my Mommy , No shit...... Then , the kids say.... You are not my daddy. Can you buy me this?..... You single guys just took on.... A ready made family..... Just bring your wallet... Anonymous Yes right having seen a woman w 2 kids only 4 times since meeting earlier this year' I'm starting to wonder if she really is worth the time or hassle, I don't usually settle for solo mums but this one is different' we have so much in common. The pitfalls are she won't says where she works or what her occupation is, she's asking me weird questions ie. Do you smoke crack? I don't use drugs and my suspicions about her are strong. Shes never been married and my instincts r her previous bfs are sinister deadbeats. Single mums are very recluse. We can't go if she has kids Straight up no nonsense answer Get the hell away from that girl... She sounds like she has more baggage than an A380s cargo hold can handle and her ex-bfs regardless of whether or not she is still in contact could pose a very serious personal safety risk. Dump her my friend go zero contact you cannot trust a female like the one that you have described. Anonymous My husband had a friend whose name is Eric. He would come to our house and hang out with us and we'd drink beers together. Really a nice guy and he never had any kids. One day he came over and says he's got this girl he's going out with. I asked if she's got any kids and he said yes. I told him to run! Here in WA, you can get stuck with child support payments for a kid who is not even yours. It turns out that his girlfriend's sister was in the navy Eric is in the navy too and she decided to set her up with him. Next thing I know, I see this poor guy gets stuck having to babysit for these bitches. Yes, the sister is a single mom too! She had a freaking newborn! They made him take leave! Last I heard he married this skank and has a daughter of his own with her. The wife got FAT too! I saw her one day at the commissary and she was rockin' the sweatpants and sweatshirt, all frumpy looking. She was no longer skinny and wearing her slut clothes. He is now in a different state but she is still in my area living in his house and I'm pretty sure he is living in some shitty barracks while shelling out serious coin for the house payments, etc. I told my sons, if they ever date a single mom and decide to marry them, to not bring them home to me and I won't go to the wedding either. And then if he tries to discipline the kid, the mom gets in his face and tell him to not dare touch her kid. And he still continues to pay for everything? Single mums, now here's my probz with them. Too much time lookin after the kids and NEVER any time for you and her to be together. I read these comments with interest... I wonder how many of you the most judgemental ones have slept with women and not used protection - so you could have a child out there being raised by a single mother. Truly disgusted by the attitudes on here, some women have had the rug pulled from under them and had no idea their partner would ever leave them - let alone if they got pregnant. All those single mums out there are dodging a bullet not having to put up with nasty arsehole like yourself :- DarthW In the US 70% of marriages end after the wife files for divorce, not the man. That means that a guy who dates her later isn't responsible to pay off her divorce debts, and single mommy debts, as well as all the other issues mentioned here. Marie, WHY, pray tell, would a man forego protection when he could be on the hook for the next 20 years?! Secondly, with all the different means of birth control available to a woman about twelve , if a woman gets pregnant, it's HER FAULT! Yeah, I said it; it's her fault! If a woman gets pregnant, it's because she wants to... MarkyMark Anonymous i have read this blog and i must say that maybe the reason all of you men are single is because of your attitude towards women in general,not just single moms. I have fallen in the same fucking hole twice. Guys, whenever you run into a single mom, RUN AWAY no matter how hot she is. Here are my problems with single mothers. First of all they have fucking kids. You cannot change that. You're fucked already and this is just 1 2. The Fucking father is always around. Always texting and calling the mother about the kid. And they are always seeing each other because of the kid. Always the fucking kid around. Always, especially if your not patient. Get the Credit Card out guys. They claim they are independent. They highly expect you to help them out. You are obliged to help out financially by default. Why pay and take care of another mans mistake?? Why raise A fucking kid that is not yours?? You won't be able to even discipline them especially if you have a bitchy girlfriend. There is a chance that their kid might be annoying as HELL!! You will never ever love the kid like one of your own. IT will never be the same. You will be forced to take little johnny out to chucky cheese and hear the yealling and screming. Be ready to CHEESE your pants! When they meet you, they fucking trap you. At 1st the sex is so great and all the hanging out but when the introduction to kids come, your DOOM! Walk away and Avoid this mess. I have fallen into a big one. It is hard to get out boys. When you date a serious mom it is fucking serious. They will trap you and it hard to get out. I have been trapped twice guys. They will do anything to trap you and get their fucking BASTARDS A DAD. They are fucking DESPARATE. WALK AWAY BOYS, DON'T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE WE HAVE ALL MADE, ESPECIALLY ME. THERE ARE MILLIONS AND MILLIONS OF GIRLS OUT THERE WITHOUT KIDS. How would you know who she had a child with? Maybe someone raped her, and she ended up getting pregnant, and decided to keep the baby. DarthW The majority of single moms are not there due to rape, or widowhood for that matter. Honestly, harsh as they are presented, the reasons are justified. I've dated several single moms no more , and its been a consistent experience. Each relationship has had varying degrees of the issues here: sometimes it was more single mom didn't set boundaries for their ex and was deep in debt. Other times it was obvious I would be a wallet, and the fifth in priorities often behind even the exes needs. Many of these same problems would occur if you're a woman dating single dads - although often the dads don't have but part-time custody, so you may not deal with the kids as much. So any women on here insulting the concepts should give a few single dads a try, and see how you like all your resources going to children who aren't yours, not having more kids because he already had his, being last priority but expected to make him and his kids first priority. Anonymous the bast majority 95% of single never married mothers got pregnant because they showed at the very least lack of good judgement, they got shit-faced drunk and slept with some dead-beat dole bludger bozo whose a few days out from being sentenced to prison for stealing cars and liquor. How are the good, solid objections I raised lame? Also, what about the fact that single mothers who were rape victims are the very rare EXCEPTION? The fact is that the vast majority of single mothers got knocked up by bad boys who got their panties wet-end of story. The fact that I had the temerity to raise that is what offends you. Anonymous I can't believe that in this day and age men still talk about women like that. I'm not single mom, but I do have two boys. I sure hope they don't turn out like any of you. I want to gag. Please tell me, how did your mothers raise you? I don't want to make the same mistakes. Anonymous Not dating a single mom is simply a self preservation thing for men. How is that disrespectful? Would you really advise your sons to get into a situation detrimental to them in the long run? How our mothers raised us has no bearing on the fact that single moms are looking for a meal ticket. Your shaming language won't work here Anonymous I am a single mother, and I have 4 children 2 are grown now, 2 are minors. My marriage deteriorated after the birth of the 3rd child when my husband lost his job and took up drinking - heavily. I tried to hold it together for 5 years, but he never stopped drinking. And then the other bad behavior started to - when I finally asked him to leave his now wife helped him move out of our home. My 4th child is from a 3 year relationship that ended 3 days before our wedding when I found out he was a con man who lied about absolutely everything - including being sterile from cancer that he never actually had thus the child we have. I had never met ANYONE who could lie so convincingly like this person. His entire family knew what he was doing and didn't tell me the truth either and helped him cover his tracks on many things to keep me in the dark about what he was. If I had known the truth, I would not have a child with this man period. None of my children are from random one night stands. I know several single moms this has happened to - so what does that make YOU? I'm sorry about what happened to you. That said, this post was NOT targeted at you; it's targeted at the vast majority of single moms who take up with the worst jerks they can find, and who have children by said jerks. These women comprise the majority of single moms. All I was trying to do was suggest she drink orange juice rather than fanta. It took a while to sink in, I stood up, walked to the counter, paid and walked out of the restaurant. When I got home I realised the impact of those words. The 6 year old was right. I wasn't her father, so why the fuck should I be even in a situation to pay for her shit? In most cases, these single moms would have been told by the ones closest to them that their bf or man is a no good cunt. You want to raise another man's Cum? Jake The thought of paying to raise another mans meatball is revolting. In some cases the girl gets pregnant by some bad boy, he does a runner.... And then the nice guys that were rejected beforehand, are now sought after to step in and save the day. The badboys plant the seed, and then they want the nice guys to raise and pay for it. I can appreciate its different for widows and divorcees... When the kid acts all naughty and hyper.... Remember it has 50% if his genes.. So you'll have your hands full!! And yet they are the most selective as well. Only a brainwashed society, would they be taken seriously. And they are, so what does that tell you. Wanted to let any former members of MGTOW Forums know that there is a new forum for ex-members and anyone else in MGTOW -. Anonymous I date single moms cause they are easy to get in bed. I would go to the club and they approach and start conversations and shit. I dont have kids and in the military too. They think im going to replace their dead beat baby daddies.. I make it abudantly clear that no relationship is going to build and they we are having fun. I would say im my experience that the majority of single moms i fuks with messed with the loser thug who had killer swag sold drugs and dropped out of elemetary school. Always go by this rule FIND EM, FUCK EM, FORGET EM 32, single, no kids, never been married, mechanical engineer, military, i aint no fool. Anonymous I don't even look their way. The single Moms where I live, are fat, overweight. The white Mom has a raisin kid or kids. So now if i were to date her, in public , people will see the kids, OH Oh look those 2 kids are not his kids, This white guy me, must be a dumb ass. Let me just hand over my wallet to you, and wait, my 401K , let me put that in your name, also, instead of direct deposit, let me just direct deposit in her account. No pussy on earth is worth this. I almost took a single mom and her two teenage boys out to lunch but refused a few days prior to the date. Later yesterday, I felt bad about doing so, nevertheless, I read this article and realized I have made the right choice. This article may seem a bit harsh to many, but it's true. There are many single mothers who hold down jobs and work very hard bringing up their kids right. However, fact is they goofed up in the first place. The other side of the story is the sorry assed scum that got them pregnant in the first place; those shits should be put in work camps and made to pay for bringing those children up. I got involved with a born again, bisexual single mother. I have to agree with other posters, in the beginning she seemed perfect, sex all the time, with lots of transparency in the relationship. But I was just a pawn that she was using to play with everyone in her life, and she had had other plans she used to manipulate me. She would make it seem like I had to keep investing more time and money to please her. They are manipulative, they are cheaters, they are not sincere. As men, we should never settle , if the women wants to attach strings to everything and she is not making an attempt to make a commitment on a daily basis let her go. Bottom line, better know the woman well before you open up to her and give her your confidence and commitment. Anonymous Here is one for all you guys. I was stupid when I was younger and dated a girl, never even told me she had kids. When I dropped her off at her moms house, I see 2 kids at the door, I said who's are they?? Also, she got drunk and told me she had a gang bang with like 4 guys last year. When I hear this , she may as well have kicked me in the balls and took my manhood away. I got up walked out and never seen her again. Changed my phone What a waste of time. Anonymous met a single mum who i really liked and she told people she liked me before i had said anything. She put up with alot of anger form me and bad comments... Anonymous I don't think any of you little boys have anything to worry about. Yes, there are some women out there who are leeches, but the really good mothers out therewho also happen to be single wouldn't give any of you pieces of crap the time of day. Good moms dedefinitely don't want some ignorant, foul-mouthed prejudice male in her or her child's life. Yes, some single mom's are single moms because they made a poor decision. I'm one of those. If you sit there and tell me you've never made a bad decision in your life, you're a damn liar. At least the good single moms out there step up and take responsibility for their actions. I pray that my son doesn't grow up to have the crappy mindset of you immature boys who have nothing better to do than bash single moms. Anonymous I love how every woman who posts against this uses the same exact tactic : shaming language, never addresses ANY of the points of the article, takes things immediately personal which is a sign of low IQ, reacts like a wild animal , never states any facts. Fortunately for me, my dad is an alpha male and my mother is a great woman, so as you can see I didnt grow up with mental problems. My condolences go to all those bastards who will be raised to be future manginas or criminals. FACTS: I dated two single moms the past year. The first one, the ex dad was ALWAYS present in some form. Of course she tried to trap me with sex but I didnt even bother after learning more about her baggage. Second one, same shit. So, I have dated two single moms and they meet almost every point made in this article. Anonymous Walk away boys. I am currently suffering from the same shit. Those bitches just fucking trap you. The worst thing you stupid single mums can do is give all the fucking attention to your fucking bastards! Always about little Johnny. Don't you bitches know its Fucking annoying??????????????????????????????????????? We will not be responsible for your fucking mistakes you bitches. Anonymous Not all single mothers are the same. Some are really good and kind hearted you just have to get to know her on a deeper level and stop judging her because she had a failed relationship, or two. We all make mistakes.. Also, did you ever take into consideration that these women who you all have complained about were CRAZY before the kids were even born lol?. Having a child does not change a persons personality. So don't judge ALL single mothers based on those wonens actions. Those women had problems before they gave birth to their kids haha. Also, I know a lot of women who will use and abuse a man and their childless. If a woman's going to LEECH she does not need a child to do it. Anonymous Any man who has fathered a child whom doesnt currently live with them; should be avoided at all costs. All you single and childless ladies out there should be aware and avoid deadbeat fathers. Yes these men claiming to be single when in actuality they have fathered children that they do not care for. They dont want their own kids and they dont want another mans kids. And actually there are hundreds of gay men who are trying very hard to adopt kids. They dont care if its their blood or not. They just want to raise kids in a loving environment. The bottom line is this:: MOST STRAIGHT MEN IN AMERICA DONT WANT KIDS... REGARDLESS IF ITS THEIR CHILD OR NOT!!! I'm so glad I found this post. I can relate to all of this. I began dating this single mother a little less than a year ago. Been in a couple LTR's but never had kids bc I just wasn't ready at the time. Here's what gets me angry. These women have zero logic. They coulda used a condom, birth control, next day pill or even abortion but NO!!! Please, selfish is having a baby bc you feel u need one for whatever is lacking in your sorry life. That kid is gonna be in his bed every night wishing for a dad. Then these stupid girls now want the nice guy. Why put yourself in that situation?? I started dating this girl at work. Months went by where it was just us. She'd always come over to my place without the kids, at one point I almost forgot she had kids. I even tried convincing myself I can do this. What the hell was I thinking??!!! As soon as I started to tell her I don't think this is what I want she went crazy. I will never again put myself in this kind of situation ever. It's just not worth it. Any man that has self respect and values himself will not do this. Just couldn't get past the kids. Anonymous This subject always gets the same comments. Normal logical people run from single moms for all the normal logical reasons and then skanky single moms post cry baby comments thinking they actually change anyones mind. Women have a greater burden of thinking before having children. Nature took care of that because women also control the sex. Its YOUR OWN DAMN choice every step of the way. Any women who finds herself in the mess made the mess. No matter who comes next at some point she will want him to clean her mess. NEVER EVER date a single mother. I dated my first one for 5 weeks and it was good in the beginning but WOW did the bullshit surface fast and hard. The woman played the victim role. She was an alcoholic and didn't tell me. Her ex was an insanely jealous deadbeat junkie. Thank god I never had to deal with him but he harassed her and she was angry and projected it on me. She thought she was still hot shit and complained I was cheap! She told me she could get anyone she wanted and I should be lucky to be with her. Even though I got her a brand new IPhone for Xmas and 200 bucks to gamble with she complained it wasn't enough. She had 2 baby girls, 1 and 3 yr old. They were good kids but the 3yr old got jealous when her mom tried to cuddle with me. I was a perfect gentlemen to her and tried my best to make it work. We discussed plans for the future and I was looking to get a new job and move closer to her but she constantly complained that I was unemployed at the time. When we argued she put me on speakerphone and tried to put words in my mouth and say that I said messed up stuff that I never said. She got mad that I slept a lot but I was dead tired because her kids kept waking me up 6x a night!!! She had a lot of audacity and was not a very intelligent woman. I had enough after the second fight and just ended it nicely. The sex was good but not nearly as good as she thought it was. She was a bad decision maker. The only thing that kept me in it was that she claimed to be very well off financially and did run 3 businesses but all the energy and time she had was spent on her job and kids and she acted like I didn't give her enough time. WILL NEVER DATE ANOTHER CUM DUMPSTER EVER AGAIN. DO NOT LET YOUR SYMPATHY FOR THE KIDS TRAP YOU! RUN FOR YOUR LIVES! I was never a priority even though she expected me to SAVE HER like superman. Anonymous Don't date single mothers, gents. If you know you not ready for a relationship why get into one and still cheat and liar. I was dying inside for my cheating wife, i had no prove, no one to run to. Everyone thought i was paranoid. I told him about my situation and He understood me well and helped me spy on my wifes iphone. He hacked her Gmail and Facebook account and linked all her WhatsApp and phone conversation to me, to find out the truth. I saw all the evidence and i was heart Broken,I just want to openly say thank you Mr James for helping me get evidence against her,i feel so hurt. If you need help please contact him Worldcyberhackers gmail.

Tom Leykis warns men to stay away from single moms for pretty much all these reasons exactly. Sometimes I think ROK articles come out too strong, then I see it played in reality just as described here. He is rushing too fast, and she should also take some time before she introduce del man to her daughter. You can definitely get that from the context. She totaled my van and almost killed me but because none of the witnesses bothered to stop she actually managed to lie her way out of it. Women have no socially-enforced responsibility for their u behaviors, even when those relationships produce children. Remember it has 50% if his genes. I bent over backwards, spent my time, resources and money on them but got little to nothing in return. He is part of the problem. Yes, some single mom's are single moms because they made a social decision. Preliminary data indicate that 40.